5 key lessons from 'Peter, Amina and Tara's love triangle !

I believe that a lot of people out there are in the same love triangle as Love and Hip Hop New York stars, Tara Wallace, Peter Gunz and Amina Buddafly! Therefore we are going to look at ' 5 KEY'  things we can learn from their 'messy' love triangle ! Let's get started!

Tara (left) has three kids for Peter! Peter (right) got married to Amina (middle) while he was still dating and living with Tara and their boys. When Tara found out that Peter had gotten married to Amina and that she was pregnant, she was absolutely broken. However a few months after the whole secret came out, Peter ran back to Tara and both continued sleeping together.

 See the '5 key things' we can learn from this relationship below !

Amina and Peter 

In the last season of 'Love and Hip Hop New York', Peter convinced his 'legal' wife, Amina to move into the same building as Tara so that Peter can be close to his boys. Unfortunately that turned out to be a 'very very very' bad idea as Peter and Tara continued to sleep together which led to Tara's third pregnancy which was later revealed on the show. Tara has since welcomed her baby boy! 

When Tara thought, Amina was just one of Peter's artists!

Amina  was pregnant at the time she found out that Tara and Peter were still sleeping together. As a result of that, she decided to abort the child as she wanted to move on. However when she then found out, that Tara was pregnant and was going to keep the child, she persuaded Peter in getting her pregnant again, which she now is! 

Tara and Peter

Peter is no longer with Tara and Amina, well that's what he said on national TV, but knowing the type of guy Peter Gunz is,  he has probably found his way back to their hearts! So what are the 5 key things we can learn from this whole messy love triangle ?

• One thing we can learn from the whole 'Peter,Tara and Amina love triangle' is that you can never really change a guy. 'Once a player always a player'. However haven't said that, they are a few men that can change but only a small percentage of them. So if you know he has always been a cheat his whole life, know that he will definitely cheat on you. 

• Another lesson we can learn from this 'Love triangle' is that 'Karma is a real b****'! The reason I am saying this is because, Tara allegedly was dating Peter while he was still with his first baby mama and apparently Tara knew about it. Now the tables have turned and Tara has now become the victim !

• Another lesson we can learn from this is that ' a baby won't keep a guy or make him stay'. Tara got pregnant by accident the third time. According to her it wasn't planned! However Amina's one was planned, because she got pregnant again when she found out that Tara was pregnant and bare in mind that she had an abortion after she found out that Tara and Peter were still sleeping together. Now she is pregnant and alone while Peter is probably with another lady or even with Tara!

• I know they say love is blind, but truthfully 'love doesn't make you that blind'! Both Amina and Tara claimed that they loved him, hence why they kept on taking him back. But Ladies seriously ? So if your daughter's boyfriend keeps hurting her consistently, would you tell her to stay because she loves him ? Is that even love? A guy that loves you will do anything in his power not to hurt you or put tears in your eyes. All he would want to do is put a smile on your face. So ladies if a guy keeps hurting you, that is clearly not love! HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU! 

• Last lesson! Deep inside Amina and Tara probably know that Peter is not good for them and that they have to move on, but I think now it's all about competition, 'who will have him last', 'I am not going to loose him to that w****' . That's what this is all about now, competition ! But at the end of the day it's 'better to loose a guy that keeps cheating on you to another woman'! Let her continue to carry the burden and as for you , you'll probably meet an amazing guy down the line. Someone that will give you the respect and love you deserve and need ! 

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